Living a Real Life

The purpose of this website is to understand and explore reality. By understanding reality, we can explore it more deliberately. By exploring reality more deliberately, we can better understand it.

Living a real life is about forging a relationship to reality that, simply stated, works. This means that you experience life as a powerful and intelligent being, capable of experiencing whatever it is you desire to experience while you are here.

Life is not meant to be struggled or worried away. You can do these things if you wish to, but they are beside the point. The point is to participate in the unfolding of reality, and to do so in a way that is of your conscious choosing. There is nothing that you “should” be or do here. Consider that you were meant to live only in a way that makes sense to you, and what makes sense to you is up to you to decide.

Moreover, this website addresses the following questions:

What is this reality?

How does this reality work?

Where are we?

Who are we?

What are we here for?

What shall we do about that?


The answers to these questions never are final. Rather, by asking these questions on a regular basis, we continually create and recreate our experience of life. Life encourages us to ask these questions again and again, so that we may answer them differently than we ever have before.

Central to the pursuit of understanding and exploring reality is becoming more aware. Awareness is your understanding of who you really are. As you become more aware, you notice and think about things that did not pass through your awareness previously.

Each new thing that you notice poses a challenge to your understanding of who you really are. When this happens, reality is encouraging you to explore it anew. This way, because you are part of reality, you may understand yourself anew as well. The more complete your understanding of reality, the more you will be able to live in a way that makes sense to you. Thus, living a real life is a process of ongoing awareness, exploration, and understanding.

All in all, life is an unbeatable experience, filled with fabulous people, exciting adventures, and endless opportunities for the exploration and expression of who you are.

If these ideas about life excite you, then Living a real life shall suit you well.

You can read more about me, Kim Wrate, on the About page, and you can send me a message through the Contact page.

The most important page on this website is the Equilibrium Archive.

Thank you for visiting!