Love is not about letting people walk all over you. When you respect your own integrity, the resulting overflow of abundance and positivity can be shared with the rest of the world.
Don't sell out to a love that wishes to destroy you. Stay to the path you know you must take, the ultimate end of which should be to uplift all people and all of the Earth. This process starts with the people closest to you, and from there it ripples outward, in concentric circles, to eventually include everyone.